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Boost Your Confidence As An Artist NOW in 4 Steps

Four Steps To Boost Your Confidence As An Artist NOW

What is confidence really? It feels mystical and something people are just “Born with”. I was NOT born with confidence, it feels like I was born far from it if that’s a thing. But the truth is that confidence can be learned and developed just like any other trait or skill… and it’s a lot easier to develop than you might initially believe. So, in this article, I want to share four steps to boost your confidence as an artist now.

 

What are the four steps to boost your confidence?

What are the four steps to boost your confidence as an artist?

  1. Practice the “I am” phrase
  2. Social Media Cleanse (Don’t Compare)
  3. Comfort doing the uncomfortable
  4. Repetition

These steps have been CRITICAL in my continued growth as an artist/business owner. So let’s break these points down now.

1. Practice the “I am” Identity Phrase

The “I am” identity phrase is a simple yet extremely powerful self-identity builder. This tactic can quickly change your emotional, mental, and even physical states to some extent. You might have figured out how it works just by reading the title. Here’s what to do. Simply tell yourself WHO you want to be. For example, If you want to be a powerful singer just say “I am a powerful singer” or if you want to be an EDM producer, say ” I am a great EDM producer”.

Here’s the identity phrase formula. “I am a” + (uplifting or positive word) + (WHO you want to be).

All three elements are critical for building identity. And you need to say these OUT LOUD. The louder the better really. Speaking this into existence helps your mind, body, and soul (identity) each participate. “I am” identity phrases are a powerful way to boost inner confidence. By repeating your identity internally and audibly you are reinforcing who you want to be and how you want to act.

P.S. You can also practice emotional “I am” phrases… just change the formula to “I am feeling” + (Positive word).

 

2. Social Media Cleanse (Don’t Compare)

This sounds like a tough one in today’s age where value seemingly comes from others. That right there is the core issue with Social Media. Our value and appeal are essentially dictated by the number of followers, likes, and 🔥🔥🔥’s resulting in major spikes and valleys in our confidence. Here’s the crazy part, no matter how many likes you get your confidence will never reach its full potential when being dictated by others. 

Now let’s fix that. Turn off social media for about 2 weeks. Completely. Say “Hey everybody I’m going to take a short mental break from social media.” Then delete your apps. Just 2 weeks. People might notice. If you really don’t want to delete then simply turn off all notifications and hide the apps in a subfolder way in the distance of your phone so they are more difficult to access.

Part two of this is to now revel in the fact that your art is yours and nobody else’s. Without the noise of social media, it begins to come clear just how much you care about your projects and how original your work is. You’ve stopped comparing and started enjoying. That enjoyment is confidence.

Obviously, your two weeks will end and you will return to social media. BUT DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF TO ANYTHING YOU SEE. This is the quickest way to undo the feeling of confidence you’ve built over your two-week cleanse. Additionally, once your two weeks are up, limit social media to POSTING and DMing. Scrolling is the fastest way to compare yourself, even initially. So continue to cut it off at the source at often as possible.

 

3. Comfort doing the uncomfortable

The previous points are all about UNCOVERING your confidence that exists yet is hidden. But becoming comfortable doing the uncomfortable is the ultimate way to GROW your confidence. Why? Because some of the uncomfortable areas of being an artist are generally the areas we know need help with. For example, posting to social media. Becoming comfortable doing the uncomfortable is of course going to be a tough topic. If you are serious about growing and reaching your full potential then somewhere internally you’ll feel the necessity to challenge yourself.

Where to start though? Well, uncomfortable situations are different for everybody. But here are a few common ones. Cold Calls. Cold Outreach (DMing somebody who has not met you yet). Small talk in the elevator. Posting your music or art to social media. Even saying Happy Birthday can feel uncomfortable (that’s me, I’m a massive introvert).

Here’s the ONE tip to begin facing the uncomfortable. Create a template interaction.

For example, (Cold Outreach) – Hey! I heard your song XXXX on my favorite playlist XXXXX. I really enjoyed it! What was your favorite part about making that track? or (Elevator talk) Good Morning, How are you today? or (Birthday text/ card) Happy Birthday! Enjoy your day! – NAME.

It might feel robotic and weird to have pre-set words ready to go. Maybe it is, but the point is NOT to be the best public speaker or close a 10,000 sale. The point is to start SMALL and breakthrough that outermost layer of fear and doubt. The outer layer is always the toughest to break.  With time (and our next point repetition), the uncomfortable will become comfortable allowing you to expand your questions, connection, and ability to share your art. That is the ultimate goal, to share your art confidently.

4. Repetition

To wrap this up, let’s talk about repetition. As a musician, repetition is the foundation of progress. We practice our measures, re-create patches, or sing the same line over and over again. Repetition is also vital in boosting self-confidence because it challenges us to practice being and feeling confident. Simply repeat the steps above Monthly, Weekly, and even Daily to feel the results.

Creating good habits by scheduling regular blocks of time to achieve is a great method for building positive repetition. For example, I write these blog posts for one hour every Thursday. Knowing WHEN I’m going to do something without even thinking about it helps me create more, experience zero stress, and feel great about it. All the little benefits that help one to feel confident.

Four Steps To Boost Your Confidence As An Artist: Conclusion

So what are the four steps?

  1. Practice the “I am” phrase
  2. Social Media Cleanse (Don’t Compare)
  3. Comfort doing the uncomfortable
  4. Repetition

By practicing these positive confidence-building habits you’ll start to feel a change when discussing or showing your music/art to others. It takes time. So don’t think that one week of the I am phrase is going to change anything overnight. If it does, let me know cause that is dope as heck!

Anyways, thanks for reading my little blog. As always, I hope you got a bit of good info from here.

Thanks!

– Kye


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    Reignite Musical Motivation Using 5 Simple Tips

    5 Tips To Reignite Musical Motivation

     

    5 Tips To Reignite Musical Motivation From Somebody Who Has Been Precisely Where You Are.

    I’ve been a musician for a long time… about 15 years now. People are always amazed when they find out because sticking with what most consider a “Hobby” is hard. and that is very true. There have been SO many moments where the motivation needed to crank out one more hour of practicing, make one more beat, or just open up Logic was just not available. Period. Anything music related (generally) has delayed gratification. So getting started is ALWAYS going to be the most difficult part. We feel tired before even picking up the guitar because it’s some form of work for our nonconscious mind. So what are the 5 tips to reignite musical motivation?

    1. Get inspiration from loops

    If you aren’t using loops yet, this might be all you need. Loops are like fire starters. Grab your fire starter, throw it into your EMPTY session, grab ONE other instrument to play around with, and 9/10 times creativity will start flowing. I use this trick extremely often because I’m personally pretty lazy. I don’t like making drum grooves, or toppers. I can find AMAZING ones pre-created on SPLICE to just drag and drop into my tracks.

    Once the new loop is in, I just go ham on my piano or guitar. I can tell you that most of the songs I’ve written follow this process. Some of my BEST work has even occurred when I didn’t feel the creative juices that day. Just get enough strength to grab that first loop.

    2. Re-listen to the favorite song, progression, or lyrics you’ve made/learned

    There’s nothing more appealing than a bit of self-love to get you out of a rut. Listening to your old music in a POSITIVE way or playing your FAVORITE song on your instrument is a great way to feel motivated because it links happiness with your ability to produce or play.

    For example, whenever I’m REALLY not wanting to practice my guitar I’ll play Fransico Tarregas Adelita. This song has a lot of meaning and importance in my life, so going back and playing it reinvigorates those feelings of excellence, hard work, and excitement. It’s also just a straight-up beautiful little song.

    So go ahead, give that motivation tool a try if your feeling unable to practice or get in the zone.

    3. Watch some tutorials

    Okay, so tutorials are a bit of a dangerous slope for a couple of reasons. When used in an effective way, they can be a tool to set you on a path for growth… and growth tends to be an intrinsic motivational tool. But what’s the dangerous side of tutorials? There are two in my mind.

    The first – Don’t let somebody else’s success drive your motivation further away. You have no clue about the amount of work they put in to make that tutorial. In fact, I’m sure they have been in a very similar position of feeling a lack of motivation.

    The second – Don’t think that just watching is enough. You need to take action and perform whatever is in the tutorial. I’ll often slow down the tutorials to .25 speed and really take my time learning something new and ingraining it in my process.

    The GOOD from tutorials comes from WANTING to learn a VERY specific new tool or technique. This FOCUS will help your creativity bubble up again. It’s important t

    o limit yourself to ONE topic and really dive deep. A few of my favorites would be sound design – making a super saw, guitar chords – learning ONE amazing progression or mixing related – learning how to use delay in a creative way. There are millions of more things to learn… but these are decent things for thought.

    4. Start small

    You can feel motivated to create music by taking baby steps. I often find myself trying to take these large bigfoot sized steps that are just impossible to reach. This is an INSTANT motivation buzzkill. So instead, flip that feeling around and you begin to ACHIEVE small amounts of momentum or internal success. Momentum and success are amazing motivators.

    For example, instead of saying ” I will produce one song this week”  say “I will write an 8-bar piano progression this week” – an 8-bar piano progression can be achieved much more easily than an entire song. If you’re trying to practice more change “I will practice my entire song” to “I will practice 12 bars from my song” – just be sure it’s a meaningful 12 bars that you know you need to review a bit more because that growth and progress is motivation.

    5. Just do it

    Finally – in the words of the great Shia LaBeouf (or Nike I guess…) “Just do it!”. You can’t argue with this philosophy. Sometimes motivation WON’T be there in ANY capacity. And at the end of the day, the hard truth is that the most successful people still TRY when they aren’t feeling motivated in any way. With an emphasis on trying. Give it shot, a genuine try to get into the zone. The above tools list great to help receive that motivation. But if nothing else you can feel motivated that you tried and just started. Even if your session only lasted 10 minutes.

    5 tips to reignite musical motivation: Conclusion

    It can be difficult to feel motivated to create. Even the greatest artists struggle with motivation. So take control instead of hoping motivation will strike. Use loops, play your favorite songs, watch some tutorials, start with small steps, and finally just do it. You will become a better musician, producer, or artist by bettering yourself. If you’ve made it this far then I think you’ve bettered yourself :).  So take it easy now and go make some dope music!!!

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      Why Meditate as a Musician

      Why Meditate as a Musician:

      Have you ever been producing, practicing or even performing and felt hazy? That kind of haze where you are DOING something but feeling distant or lackluster? Yes. I have felt that plenty of times. Yet, I never attempted to find a solution to this sluggish haziness. The solution was always available and only cost a little time… anywhere from 1 minute to 10. Yep, Meditation. So let’s talk about meditation and why meditate as a musician.

      How to Meditate as a Musician:

      I’ve personally tried a few different meditation techniques….. certain sitting positions, youtube videos, articles, and MANY podcasts. What I’ve found is, meditation is completely a personal preference and one size does NOT fit all. You will need to do a bit of meditation exploration to find the type that resonates best with your natural abilities and personality.

      I’ll attach my 3 favorite resources at the end of this article.

      However, I will share MY favorite way to meditate to help you draw inspiration. I tend to meditate by simply sitting up straight, closing my eyes, letting my shoulders drop to allow the stress and tension to roll off my body, breathing deeply in a slow rhythm, and finally experiencing the tranquility of silence. The intensity of how silent any room can be is amazing. What I mean is, silence is relative to your awareness.  Once those speakers turn off, or you stop practicing your instrument It almost feels like the room is flowing with the ripples of your music. That’s just me anyways…

      Now let’s talk about what you get from meditation… this is the good stuff.

      3 main benefits

      Below are the 3 main benefits I personally experience after a short meditation session either before producing or in the middle when I need to clear my head.

      1. Heightened creativity and flow state.
      2. Increased ability to listen objectively
      3. Healing of the body (ears especially)

      Let’s dive into these benefits a bit.

      Heightened creativity and flow state

      Meditating as a musician will unlock your creativity and flow state by becoming an internal cue for your body and mind to work as one. After meditating, your mind becomes a blank slate ready to take on the challenge of creating. Your stress has decreased meaning fewer blockades from the aspects of life that are NOT serving your creative moments (like work, emails, and the laundry you may or may not have forgotten about for 3 days straight). In conjunction, your body has experienced a shift in breathing or posture to help signal wellness.

      You are now ready to enter the creative flow state.

      At first, the flow state may take a few minutes. But with repetition, this meditation will become a trigger for creativity.

      Increased ability to listen objectively

      Listening objectively is a core aspect of progression for every musician. Progression can only occur when areas of improvement are realized. When listening to the same material or practicing some 8 bars for too long we quickly lose sight of what is “Good” and where to apply improvements.

      Meditation is a consistent and fast way to readjust your ears to listen critically again. By removing the physical sounds from your surroundings your focus shifts to internal awareness. The internal body is much more precise and balanced than the external, so after we have reset, we are bringing that precision back into our ears and mind. Try your 8 bars again and you’ll hear what it really sounds like (hopefully better than you originally thought)!

      Healing of the body

      One main benefit of any meditation is the healing associated with it. Relaxation and release of tension help to keep our heart rate down, our body comfortable and our minds clear. Mediation as a musician also helps to re-calibrate our ears to a regular hearing level and can help prevent permanent hearing damage or even loss. How? Relaxing and recalibrating our ears should make any incremental volume increases over the session more noticeable… basically meaning you can turn down the volume again.

       

      Meditate as a Musician conclusion:

      The benefits of meditation are explored frequently with many truly amazing results, so as musicians it’s in our best interests to apply the techniques to further our creativity, skill, and health.

      1. Heightened creativity and flow state.
      2. Increased ability to listen objectively
      3. Healing of the body (ears especially)

      Now is the time to practice meditation. Grab your phone, search guided MEDITATION in Google or your favorite podcast app and then slip away into a new world. Be 100% engaged and open to meditation to feel the most effect. And it only takes a few minutes.

      Thanks for reading!! Until next time,

      Take it easy!

      -Kye

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        Perfectionism as a musician why perfection is IMPOSSIBLE

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        Perfection as a musician:

        Perfectionism is often viewed as a desirable trait. Many people associate it with a high level of achievement and excellence. However, perfectionism can have negative effects on one’s well-being and ability to succeed. Perfectionism as a musician or producer can quickly lead to unhelpful habits. In my experience, perfection was always a road that created standards too high to ever reach. It’s taken a LOT of time to change and I’m here to share WHY perfectionism NEEDS to be avoided when making music.

        But first, what is perfectionism?

        Perfectionism is a personality trait characterized by a relentless pursuit of flawlessness and high standards. Perfectionists set exceedingly high expectations for themselves and often have a critical inner voice that chastises them for any perceived shortcomings. They may also impose these high standards on others, leading to a difficult and uncompromising work environment.

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        Perfectionism as a musician: Explained

        A musician who is a perfectionist may have unrealistic expectations about their art, performance, recording, or voice. As a musician or producer, these high standards can quickly kill the most important part of the creation process – the enjoyment. This can happen at any point in the journey. Even multiple times if you aren’t careful.

        I’ll share an example. When I first experienced a negative impact from perfectionism I was in college. I worked hard enough and loved guitar enough to be accepted into a collegiate classical guitar program. The practicing was rigorous and I came to accept that was part of the cost to achieve perfect results. However, no matter how hard or for how long I practiced I could never achieve “Perfect” results (in my own eyes). The problem with this need for perfection is that I eventually associated perfectionism with enjoyment. Perfection = Happiness. Massive red flag right there.

        I did not realize until years later that this association had caused a negative change in my life. I got so obsessed yet unhappy playing guitar that I left the program within a year, despite playing guitar passionately for the previous 10 years of my life.

        So, as a musician, it’s crucial to always protect that feeling I know we all get from practicing, playing for fun, playing on stage, DJing, or producing. If you find yourself in a situation anything like mine, take a step back and try to re-imagine that feeling that started your journey.

        Negative consequences of perfectionism:

        While striving for excellence can be admirable, perfectionism can have negative effects on one’s well-being and success. Here are a few potential consequences of perfectionism:

        1. Procrastination: Paradoxically, perfectionism can lead to procrastination. Someone who sets unattainable standards may become overwhelmed and put off tasks until they feel they can do them perfectly. This can lead to missed deadlines and incomplete projects.
        2. Anxiety and Depression: Perfectionism can cause anxiety and depression. The constant pressure to be perfect can lead to feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, and low self-esteem. These feelings can contribute to the development of anxiety and depression.
        3. Impaired Relationships: Perfectionists may have difficulty forming and maintaining relationships due to their uncompromising nature. They may be critical of others, leading to conflicts and difficulties in social situations.
        4. Burnout: The relentless pursuit of perfection can lead to burnout. Perfectionists may push themselves beyond their limits, neglect self-care, and sacrifice their physical and emotional well-being.

        Strategies for managing perfectionism as a musician:

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        perfectionism as a musician – balanced rocks

        While perfectionism can have negative consequences, there are ways to manage its effects. Here are a few strategies:

        1. Create sustainable habits – habits are the truest building block for success. If you can be happy while performing habits like practicing or warming up, you’ll incrementally reach the success desired and never feel pressured.
        2. Set realistic goals: Rather than aiming for perfection, set achievable goals that can be realistically accomplished. Celebrate small successes and progress, rather than focusing on unattainable ideals.
        3. Practice self-compassion: Rather than criticizing oneself for perceived flaws or mistakes, practice self-compassion. Treat oneself with kindness and understanding, and recognize that everyone makes mistakes.
        4. Seek support: Surround oneself with people who are supportive and understanding. Seek the help of a therapist or counselor to develop healthy coping mechanisms for managing perfectionistic tendencies.
        5. Prioritize self-care: Perfectionists may neglect self-care in favor of striving for excellence. It is essential to prioritize self-care activities, such as exercise, healthy eating, and relaxation, to maintain physical and emotional well-being.

        Conclusion – what’s important to know about perfectionism as a musician:

        Perfectionism is a trait that can have both positive and negative effects. As a musician, it’s important to keep the passion alive because creativity and passion go hand in hand. Set realistic goals, be proud of YOUR spot in your journey, and NEVER expect your journey, or sound, or playing style to be like anybody else. Being unique is a key to success and oddly enough being perfect as an artist. Stop seeking perfectionism as a musician and start feeling proud of your art.

        PS- If you are interested in breaking a Bad Habit associated with perfection check out the book ATOMIC HABITS (it’s just a really good book, I get nothing for telling you about it). This is a very great book for removing bad habits and bringing out the best of our intentions.

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          From Producer to DJ – 3 Incredible Discoveries

          How playing to a crowd changed my production level completely

          FROMPRODUCER TO DJ

          The big break – from producer to DJ

          Okay, so around mid-July of 2022 I had the opportunity to play some of my tunes out to a “small” crowd. This was huge for me as a producer and artist. This was a shift I’ve been wanting, a shift from producer to DJ. At the time I believed this opportunity was going to help propel my artist brand forward. I never guessed this would impact my production skills as well. And all for the better.

          Before I tell you EXACTLY what was learned, I need to explain the type of producer I was prior to DJing regularly. I started using Garageband at 13 Recording my guitar, writing songs, and tinkering with plugins. This meant lots of long hours on youtube, trial and error, and fun overall. Around 18 I decided professional college classes would help me as a producer. Well, that could not have been further from the truth. The professional classes did not come close to the knowledge I had gained during the years of tinkering around in Garageband.

          DJ CARTOON

          My learnings

          After that initial failure, I sought out online courses. Now we were getting somewhere. I took courses from places like ADSR, Corse Academy, and of course a lot more youtube. My love and understanding of production, mixing, and mastering grew exponentially through the next 2 – 3 years. And outside of production, I was still involved with collegiate-level guitar, choir, and theater… so my knowledge of music theory, performance, and hard skills continued to grow as well.

          Okay, but what did this make me as a producer? I had been a very technical, well-taught, and by the book’s producer. What did this mean? This meant that songs needed form. Songs needed complexity. Productions needed to meet a certain standard to sound amazing. And music needed to SOUND good before it was considered good.

          I am very thankful for some of these views … Others were actually negatives in disguise.

          DJ LIGHTS CARTOON

          1. Good music doesn’t always meet YOUR production standards

          This is the first change in view from producer to DJ. Essentially, I had spent too long getting caught up in the technical side of a song. I was not judging music by its entertainment value. A listener is NOT going to care if the song is SLIGHTLY quieter sounding, or if the piano is a few DB too loud. The listener ULTIMATELY cares about the vibe and how interesting the song is to them. I never would have learned this until I played as a DJ. Why? Because some of the BEST songs have HORRIBLE mixes… and vice versa, some AMAZING mixes don’t get a crowd interested.

          So, if the song itself is interesting then the production, mix, and master are simply tools. They help the music sound the best it possibly can. I drew two major conclusions from this realization. First, I needed to spend MORE time writing.  Secondly, I needed to spend LESS time mixing. What is final is final. And to put it simply, you can’t polish a turd. But you can polish gold to help it shine brighter.

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          2. Design Original Sounds

          Many of the best songs have a very focused and catchy sound. For example, vocals are generally considered the most original. Likewise, vocals and an original sound are a magic formula. What did this mean for my productions? Well as a result, I now believe that originality comes from weirdness initially. For example, laying a guitar with a saxophone and then using a transient shaper to emphasize the sax attack could make an interesting sound. Synths have endless possibilities as well.

          Here’s a twist, however, original needs to be blended with familiar. Many songs use the piano in some capacity. Or similar drum grooves. Or most basic, the time signature. Above all, a song needs to make the listener feel something new. An original sound is simply the BEST way to stand out. Of course, this is easier said than done… so click HERE to learn about finding your sound.

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          3. Make music for yourself first

          Everybody has different tastes in music. We all know this. Every taste is valid. That’s a bit harder of a reality to swallow but it is true. I’m a people pleaser, so I’ll often find myself stuck on the idea that a song is not good enough for others. THAT’S FINE. If you aren’t 100% feeling a song just test it out loud to people and see what happens. You’ll find a lot more positive feedback.

          Now let’s take this a step further. First, we need to answer a question. Who is our harshest critic? Nine times out of ten it’s OURSELVES.  So here’s the simple solution. Stop focusing on how others will perceive your music and write something you want to hear. Write something that is missing from the world. Write something that shares who you are in some way.

          For example, I LOVE using my voice, filtered stabby synths, and rich bass. This is my signature sound because I could never find an artist who did EXACTLY what I wanted. So, I just created it myself. Here’s the most interesting part. When I ask my fans what song they LOVE the most, I always get told It’s the one I loved the most as well. Click HERE if you would like to take a listen on Spotify.

          FROMPRODUCER TO DJ

          From Producer to DJ – Top Takeaways

          1. Good music doesn’t always meet your production standards
          2. Designing original sounds is a key to differentiation
          3. Make music that you TRULY need to hear

          I am happy to share these findings with every artist who needs a little bit of perspective. It is a fun journey from producer to DJ. If you enjoyed the article, consider signing up to our email list below. You will get notified when new articles come out, Sales on beats, Sales on mixing/mastering services, and anything new that happens for the KSP brand. I’m just one normal guy who loves music. 

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